Thanks to all who attended the State Convention this year, for all the positive feedback, everyone had a great time. We had a pizza party on Thursday night, opened the convention on Friday morning followed by family day, including a trip to the Museum of Military History in Kissimmee. Friday night was a special dinner recognizing all those who served and continue to serve in the Florida Regional Group. FRG business resumed on Saturday morning and speakers informed us of additional services. Later on Saturday evening we had our swearing-in of new FRG officers dinner and continued the party in the Hospitality Room!
FLORIDA REGIONAL GROUP
Blinded Veterans Association
FRG NEWSLETTER • September 2019
FRG-BVA web site: www.frgbva.org
Blinded Veterans Association Florida Regional Group
2019 FRG STATE CONVENTION UPDATE
FLORIDA REGIONAL NEWs
• President’s Message:
We are currently making changes to all our communication platforms in
order to better serve our Blinded Veterans. Communication is key to carry out the FRG’s and BVA’s mission. As we learn what works and what doesn’t, we will implement or continue to restructure until we find effective ways to deliver information and make advocate support available
- TRIBUTE TO MR. TERRY N. KING -
Terry, like many young men of the 50’s and 60’s,
joined the military for the hope and thought of
excitement. It didn’t hurt that he was promised three
hots and a cot either. While in the Army, Terry
experienced the one thing that no one would ever want to face,
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something that sends chills up and down your spine just thinking about it, he was involved in an explosion that ended his military career and ultimately his sight.
After his recovery, it didn’t take Terry long to realize that he needed to learn some new skills if he was going to earn a living. After all, you can’t keep a good man down, and Terry, was a very good man. He was also an older brother and he couldn’t let Stan see him wither up and become a lump on a log collecting dust. No sir, he still had a lot of living to do, and just because he couldn’t see didn’t mean he could not do.
The Chicago Lighthouse for the Blind offered classes to train or retrain people who are visually impaired to totally blind. When Terry first started attending classed he still had some usable vision which was great. It not only enabled him to grasp all of the concepts in the shop class quickly, so fast in fact that the instructor asked him to slow down or leave the class. It also helped him to notice his future wife, Joanne.
Terry and Joanne dated for several months, the blind way. Double dating, taking a bus or taxi, having Joanne’s parents drive them, or by walking. Terry, the adventurous one and Joanne the more cautious one (does that sound like the Joanne we know and love?) married in 1963 and settled into what would become a lifetime love affair.
So, how does a blind guy earn money to support his family in the 1960’s? After the shop class at the Lighthouse for the Blind in Chicago, Terry heard about a Vending Stand Program for the Blind. He started with a Cigar Stand, went on to a Snack Stand and then to
being the first totally blind person to run a Cafeteria. Joanne ran the home, which if you’ve ever tried it as a visually impaired or blind person it is not as easy as it sounds. Add some sighted children to the mix and you have Wonder Woman. Wonder how that woman managed to make it look so easy!
Everyone needs a hobby or a way to relieve stress, or some sort of activity that they enjoy that is not work related. Terry’s is building boats, sailing the boats he has built and fishing from them. We are not speaking about a canoe here. Oh, no! We are talking about a boat large enough to sleep a family of four. In Chicago, Terry once built a boat so large in his back yard that he had to hire a company to lift the boat over his garage to put it on a trailer so that it could be towed! I think he was destined for Florida. Seems as though the skills he learned in the shop classes he took at the Chicago Lighthouse for the Blind were put to good use!
There were many boats of varying sizes that were built, used and loved by the family and then sold by Terry over the years. If we were to ask him about it, he would probably say it was the process of building, launching something “he’s always wanted”, and spending those special moments with his family that Terry loved the most. Teaching his oldest two children, Karen and Tom to pilot the boats holds a very special place in his heart.
Terry became a member of the BVA in the mid-1960’s and did not think much about it at the time because as you can see so far, he has led a very full life and he really didn’t feel he had time to offer/give with his children being so young. Many of us can relate to that. We join an organization thinking it’s a good thing but we don’t really do anything with it, until we need something or we see a need and we think we can fulfill it. That was the case for Terry. He saw a need for change within the organization and he felt that he could make a difference.
Has Terry King made a difference? After doing some checking around, and with the help of a few people, I’ve compiled a list of just some of his accomplishments. You may remember more than I have listed, if so please feel free to email me your list.
Accomplishments within the FRG-BVA: Increasing our membership from about 700 to an all time high of around 1500; Increased the number of District Directors; Increased the number of Luncheons around the State; The list serve; Wrote the Duties of the District Directors and the Amendment to have it included in our By-Laws;
Wrote numerous Amendments to out By-Laws that not only upgraded what was previously written, but improved upon it.
I asked Terry what he felt was the most important job or accomplishment he had as President of the FRG. Terry replied, “ The most important job I had was representing Blinded Veterans when they were having problems with the VA”. When asked what he saw/hoped for the future of the FRG, Terry replied, “ It is going to depend on the future leaders. There of course will always be a need for a service organization like the BVA, for helping Veterans that are having problems with the VA.”
Most of the FRG may not know that Terry and Joanne’s youngest child, Susan passed away a few years ago. He doesn’t speak of it hardly at all, we aren’t supposed to outlive our children. With incredible strength, they
carried on that year, helping Veterans in need, going to Luncheons, the State Convention and the National Convention.
Knowing the Kings for the few short years that I have, I can say that I have great respect for both of them. I believe that Terry is a self-made man, has more integrity than you’ll ever find in a person who has held a top position for so many years, he is a man of his word which is rare today in the business world. Terry also has some “used car salesman” qualities about him. If there is an open position on the Board of Directors, Terry can talk you into it quicker than a used car salesman can sell you a clunker, which is exactly how I got my start.
- Anna Clarke interview
• • • • • West Palm Beach Blind Rehab News • • • • •
Have questions about attending West Palm Beach Blind Rehab Center? Let’s talk about the process, you begin with a referral from a VIST coordinator after an assessment of your physical capabilities is performed. Both you and your VIST should review and agree to the reason your attending, for example; Living Skills, Orientation and Mobility, iPhone, etc. Later the West Palm BRC team will review your referral and determine a program specifically tailored for you. Depending on the availability your wait time maybe short or up to 90 days. During your wait time, make sure you have enough of your prescriptions and up to date refills, full hygiene kit, a jacket and sunscreen for outdoor activities. You can bring your service dog, since you will be in your own room, bring enough dog food. After a week your instructors, the BRC chief, a psychologist, your VIST via phone call and yourself will meet again for another assessment to help you stay the course.
* Word from one of our District Directors on his latest visit to West Palm BRC, Mr. Doug Cram. Recently Mr. Cram reported on FRG Google Gtoups that he was provided a private room and choice of meals from a daily menu. Mr. Cram attended BRC for the Oricam program, which he completed in one week. He highlighted these noticeable changes and we thank him for his willingness to inform Blinded Veterans of those changes.
* * UP-COMING EVENTS * *
** District Luncheons: Veterans with spouse/caregiver and up to 2 accompanying guest $5, more guest will be $10. -Cash Only-
• Jacksonville Luncheon - October 12th, 2019 at Golden Corral from 11:30am to 2:30pm • 1201 Memorial Park Rd., Jacksonville 32205 • Contact: Charles Powell at 904-465-2383 or 1-800-478-3916.
• Fort Myers Luncheon - November 2nd, 2019 at Golden Corral from 11:30am to 2:30pm • 4690 Colonial Blvd., Fort Myers 33966 • Contact: Jim Duda at 239-450-6007 or 1-800-478-3916.
• Ocala Luncheon - January 11th, 2020 • Ocala Hilton Hotel • Churchill Ballroom from 11:30am to 2:30pm • 3600 SW 36th Ave., Ocala 34474 • Contact: Doug Cram at 352-489-0557 or 1-800-478-3916.
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